Having all the benefits of marriage without making it official.

As for me .. a piece of paper and having a "judge" marry you doesn't prove how much I love the person. The mentality of getting married or not shouldn't change if you see the person with you for life or not. But again that's my opinion on marriage. I'm still open to it but I've seen marriage ruin really good relationships.

For me, its some of the comments im seeing where the woman just did not get me to that point of “man she is wifey material”.