I pointed to my rainbow earrings. She then proceeds to tell me how worried she and her husband are for their 16yo grandson who is just starting to transition. That he’d just had his first appointment with the doctor but was now very concerned. My parents, much less my grandparents, would never, in a million years, have been so accepting. The only comfort I could think to offer before I got called in was “At least we’re in Massachusetts, that should make things a little easier”.