Exactly. It's not about how a man looks. But the content of his heart. If he hates women and lashes out at them because he gets rejected for example then that is actually weakness coming from the man. And he's acting effeminate..meaning NOT acting in his masculine. doesn't matter if the man looks like a Chad with a full beard and muscular. These are some of the most effeminate and the most overly emotional men.. essentially where the term "man child" comes from.. they really haven't grown up