Because you didn’t want to lose him, you lost yourself in the process. You became a girl who endured mistreatment, telling yourself, “I’m used to it.” You accepted being unappreciated, convincing yourself, “It’s okay.” You learned to downplay your worth, saying, “I’m fine.” You allowed yourself to be taken for granted, responding with, “Everything’s okay.” It’s time to realize: no guy is worth losing yourself over.