Nearing my 40s, I hope it means I’m finally getting my life sorted out. Job-wise, I’m counting down to my two-year anniversary in the same role. I bought a new (but old) place in a familiar neighborhood, visited a few countries, & revisited some old destinations, including Seoul. This year has been about meeting new people, losing more family members & friends, blocking a handful of strangers online—along with some who were once called friends. Swipe left for Seoul in 2018, & from my other half