It's not about the shirt. It's about men assuming she wants a tighter, fitted women's shirt and changing the order. She ordered what she wanted and he decided he knew better.

It would like if you ordered XL so they sent you the xl skinny fit. They assume you're thin because the guy doing the orders is thin. It's annoying. You get to feel excluded because someone on the other end has an unconscious bias.

Why should it be ok for anyone to feel uncomfortable in mandatory work clothes for any length of time at all? She asked for a particular size & cut of shirt for a reason & that wasn't respected.

Just stop telling women what they should or shouldn’t feel.

Stay out if this. You are man and don't understand the situation because it doesn't happen to you. It's annoying because it happens to us all the time. Stop invalidating the lived experiences of women.

You are in fact being an absolute pinecone that doesn't know anything about shutting up.

If you ordered a mens shirt and got a womans shirt, would you wear it? Or would you maybe fuss a bit?

For one interest in syntax, I’m surprised that you are advocating for precision.

Incels gonna incel, can you even see your junk without a mirror you pinecone?

So you are the authority that decides how much other people are allowed to be annoyed? Can we see your certificate, please? Or is there some general guidebook where everybody can look up the acceptable amount of annoyance for any given situation?