I would say mainly because like christ said in matthew 7 were so quick to look at the speck im someone else’s eyes that we cant acknowledge the Log in our own and in that context he’s teaching us to not judge because this will lay the ground work the principles and expectations we as Christians must live by and were so caught up in our own self righteousness that we forget we were the same ones as the ones young in the faith im guilty of that but there are times people play around with it

But theres also a lack of love within the church nobody is as loving or caring for people to come to Christ or supportive like that anymore