Mwn do the same. The best thing to do is figure out hpw you're a match to that person. Narcissistic people need us to feel not worthy in some kind of way to turn on the actress,actor for you!

Amen ...lived it .. still recovering... 3 yrs later .. I'm afraid it'll be with me forever

Welcome to my nightmare. It took 2 years for me to realize I was discarded. Confirmed it when I found IG pages she followed “thesinglewoman” and could see the dates she liked post. The I found poetry she wrote about he boss and whatever happened on trips they went on. Location found at hotels 2 times during work hours, zero explanation other then denial. No closure, she’ll find a new supply. Time to be selfish and put myself first.

Then when you do leave she plays the victim.

You guys should watch the movie deep water with Ben Affleck and then u’ll thank God it never got that bad for you all. I wouldn’t call my ex a narc but she just checked out in a matter of 2 weeks upon me asking her to not accept travel points from her Dad’s friend in the future because I didn’t want my gf to owe another man anything. This was the girl I was in love since 2018 and had reconnected with last year and I eventually wanted to marry. I have gone thru an emotional roller coaster.