In the 80s, Heart had a song about this called “All I wanna Do Is Make Love To You “😳

I have been through this. I wanted 2, but he wanted 1. He loves our daughter so much. Then I started to tell him if he ever thought about daughter would be alone after we pass. That convinced him a bit, then I asked what his concern was. He said having a child is tired, and he didn’t want to go through this again. He is a family man and does most chores at home. We proposed to that we can have one more if I will be the main one looking after the children. That means no OT or promotion at work.

I promised him, and didn’t regret my decision. However, be mindful that he might blame on you when problem came up. For example, I expressed that potty training is difficult, that’s why I’m tired. Then he immediately said “it’s your decision. Don’t blame.”