Secure men actually can set boundaries for themselves as well and advocate for women WITHOUT projecting onto other men for validation. Let's test your theory though..women are all (insert derogatory dehumanizing label here). According to your "logic", now every woman that takes offense to anything in the parenthis, no matter what it is, is just being unsecure and immature. It's almost like you think women aren't capable of reason or emotional regulation, but tell us more about our sexism dude!