Wish my husband of 48 years had learned what this guy has… I face a risky surgery in 12 days. May not survive it. Scary. The prep alone is arduous. You’d think THAT would have made him…. Kinder? Nicer? No. Son & granddaughter. Same. My own fault for having served them always putting myself last, did without. Taken for granted. I did ALL the cooking, cleaning, laundry. Son now does his food and laundry but nobody cleans. I’m not cleaning up after them anymore. I used to keep a spotless house.