The last two years, my parents knew I was dating a woman, and they coped by pretending she didn't exist and refusing to talk about her. Since we got engaged, our relationship is ALL my parents want to talk about, and not in a nice way. Last year, I went to Thanksgiving and Christmas at my parents' by myself. This year, I'm not going to my parents' at all, because I don't want to go anywhere my fiancee is not welcome.