Low effort dates are for low effort people. This thread shows that a lot of women use coffee dates as a safety net and “if I don’t like you I can leave quick…” One should be aware via communication beforehand if they like a person or not. Some women don’t require a lot and are low effort. That’s fine. I prefer to dress up and dine upon first meeting someone. Meet people where they are at or higher. Plenty of people enjoy low effort, that wld be target market. Pick them.