I live in America, but there are lot's of people that are living in Africa reaching out & I really want a relationship that is real, rational & we can actually live and do life together. I don't see how that would work, & I am really not looking for a pen pal. Sorry, but I want someone I can hug & do things with as a part of my life, because I can pray to God whenever I need to, or write Him things that are going on in my life, if it's going to be the same with a man then I am going to opt out.