I am TRANS. I am NON-BINARY. I am not my assigned gender at birth. I do not owe you masculinity I do not owe you androgyny Do I choose to express those things? Of course. Is it a requirement of my identity? Fuck no! Gender means many different things to many different people. You do not get to tell them if they are performing it to your standards. The social construct of gender is complex and far reaching and to break our binary we must learn to exist outside of its expectations. Be kind