I was watching a video on Instagram of a little girl talking about bullies at school while her mom washed and braided her hair. I can't remember the context, but at some point the mom said, "You aren't responsible for mommy's feelings, ok." This has been rattling around in my head for over a week because growing up with disregulated parents- I was made to feel responsible for all the fucking feelings. And I don't know what to do with that.