If a woman has kids they all come as as a package together if u feel it’s too much for u u can always find another woman either with no kids or less kids it’s down to u if u feel ur not up to it then don’t do it maybe take her out on a few dates if u haven’t done so to see how u really feel about it everyone has different opinions on dating / relationships on who they want to be with, if 3 of her kids have died there may have been some health issues behind their deaths not all relationships work

Work out all the time always got to give them a chance if u feel it’s not working out can end the relationship I wouldn’t say there is a behavioral issue but ur more of thinking about can this work or that she might not be ready for a relationship u need to think if this is what u want if u want to be with her