Y'all put to much pressure on friends, we are all grown now. If a friend can't make it, they can't make it.. If you haven’t talked to your friend in two weeks, THATS OKAY!!! !!! If they have to sit out your birthday festivities because money funny, THAT’S OKAY!!! We all have different priorities. We’re grown now, got kids, husbands/boyfriends, wives/girlfriends, careers. It's just not enough time in a day to give your man/woman, kids, customers/clients, work, friends, siblings etc. 100%