Most successful men prefer to marry women who are less successful because they will be able to control them; also those women are okay with staying at home and being taken care by their men (I'm not saying it's wrong). Most successful women don't have time like less successful ones, to take care of the family needs such as laundry and cooking, also successful women are viewed as intimidating probably because they don't necessarily need anything from the men they are with.

Because we can do everything by ourselves

Cause men's options open up wide when they are successful cause you have access to gold diggers and good women. Women's options shrink because they need a man to match or exceed her success or she will treat him like trash cause she don't respect him as a man. Women will never submit to a man she don't respect or can't benefit from.

Because women don’t know the difference between being confident and just being an asshole. They can’t feel empowered unless they’re putting someone else down. Calls into question whether or not they deserve to feel empowered at all.

Because men can do 2 things at the same time.

Women who are highly successful want a man that’s on their level or higher. Unfortunately those men are a very small percentage of the population. They are competing against women who make less than them for the same man. Mathematically it just makes sense why they are single

Most successful men have wives because men mostly look to have a family and leave a legacy. .........Women o nthe other hand, wanna so called be free from the shackles of natural order. They do it for selfish gain this is the real reason they refuse to take care of anyone they want to be taken care of and have all the funds to themselves.

Because to be successful, you have to devote a lot of time towards that success. Our society expects the men to be barely available for their families while their wives are doing everything else. He is praised for this. For a woman to be successful, she has to do the same but gets trashed for not devoting more to her family, even though successful women devote a lot more to their families than a successful man does. Because of that, she needs a man who can help her with all facets...

There’s balance in a man who’s in a relationship and is more successful than his woman because he’s stepping into his leadership, being that provider, and filling his role. That woman standing next to this man would be inclined to lean on him, multiply everything she is given, show love, and support him emotionally. She keeps her femininity. To step into a partnership where the man is not..even more successful than his woman, inevitability she embodies his role, an unbalanced partnership here.

I think most successful women have will not be tolerant like a one who still needs support. It does not mean successful women dnt want marriage. It means the only thing apart from their success is finding a good husband because they have everything they need, but a good husband is not easy to comedy, it also doesn't mean they are not dating. They are dating and probably being disappointed by what they find. And like you said the successful ones are already being taken care of.