My man point blank clarified saying “don’t call so late I go to bed around 8:30pm to get up around 4:00-4:30am for work.” Sometimes he work other hours doing from 8pm-4am. He will texts at night somedays but not others, his clarifying helped. Me 8pm still at work Ima text “at work just wanted to say goodnight before you go to bed.” Then I be getting off by 9:30pm, and home falling asleep in my work clothes on the couch by 9:50pm. No one else at home except sister I live with.

Most ppl would say red flag but as a person who frequently does this (daily) lol because I fall asleep sometimes as early as 7pm I’d say give them grace.