When men cut in front of me or act like I should have let them go first, I say "ladies first!" And dramatically usher them in. It never fails to get them to start apologizing and being awkward. Beat them to the punch. I'll also say "no problem, princess" when they make an inane request in an attempt to control me or alter my behavior. I learned this from my grandpa 🤣 "after you, PRINCESS" when a man would cut him off