I would like GRACE, respect, friendship, guidance and love. I have never in my 35 years of living felt safe with a black man. I love black men I just want them to love me back. Fight harder to be in your children’s life full time you are needed despite the relationship with the mother.

Be healed, intentional, honest, open and consistent. Communicate what you need from others and understand what is needed from you.

Take accountability and be open. Communicate your feelings without having a tantrum. If you can't control your anger, seek help. Learn to respect boundaries. Like, love and care for your woman.

For Black men to know their true self worth and to be committed to taking care of themselves in every way. Once they have this down, then they can give a Black woman the love that she deserves.

To realize I don’t want to fight against you. You have enough to fight daily so I just want to be a partner for you. I want the love God has for you to prompt your actions, and led us both closer to the Father.

I agree with the other ladies... I want you to be open and honest... And be willing to share your authentic self with me...

To take your place. You’re supposed to be our protectors, our providers, our covering, our priests in the family and our guide. And please Stop hating black women for just existing.

All of the very best of you …

Transparency and loyalty

Honesty....