Oof... I have not dated men, but I do have a lot of straight/bi female friends, and a lot of straight/bi male friends, so I have heard both sides, and I do get it. But that's also kinda how women have been in my life, at least before my current relationship. Don't give up, the right man or woman will come into your life when you least expect it, possibly when you're not ready... But you'll hold on for dear life because they deserve you.