It’s like they don’t realize that love isn’t just about keeping someone around—it’s about growing together, respecting each other, and being willing to do what it takes to make things work. If you truly care about someone, you wouldn’t want to see them hurting, and you’d do whatever it takes to fix the issues instead of letting them walk away...

People either grow up and have adult conversations to work out the wrinkles in their relationship or they just throw it away. Blame shifting like this post is immaturity at its finest. It takes 2 to work, not just one side. Adults communicate children blame shift.

Accept it as a blessing and not a curse! As soon as your release what’s not serving you you gain what’ll stop the world for you

lots of people are saying how you’re not the love of his life if he sees you hurting and doesn’t change… that is not necessarily true. if your partner can’t process their emotions, they won’t understand yours. if they can’t show up for themselves, they won’t be able to show up for you. nothing is black and white in this world. people can be unhealed, therefore limited in their capability of showing love. it doesn’t mean they don’t have it for you. but it also doesn’t mean you should stay either.

I don't understand why women insist on choosing men like this and getting upset when it doesn't work out

This is deep

men ☕️

It’s hard enough to change for yourself. To change because someone else wants you to requires a resolve most people don’t have. They also lack the empathy required to see the way their actions cause pain in others. The change only comes when they realize that it’s for their OWN good - and even then - it’s hard. It’s women that need to let go of this idea that a man can/should change. Just find the right one for you. He’s out there.

It runs too deep and it will take too much work! A generational curse that’s unending. Women have moved ahead - men will have to catch up!

Why people want people to change instead of dating their type… people dont change they grow.. so the question is why stay with someone and your not happy… why to people sacrifice their happiness for someone else happiness!!