Find friends you can be in the valley with. One of my closest friends apologized for being distant and isolated because she was stressed in medical school. I’m not one to take it personally when people are just trying to get through life. But I reminded her, I don’t only want to be your friend at your best. I told her that every time we hang out it doesn’t need to be an event, that I hold space for struggle too. If you want to cry over lattes or couch rot and order in, let’s do that.