If it’s deliberately done to cause pain yes, but sometimes that’s just not the case. Two people who have a child but do not belong together should not stay together for the sake of the child. that in turn with hurt someone regardless. Damage is already going to be done, but the question remains: what do you want your child to know about relationships so they grow to have healthy ones? Staying in a toxic relationship does no one favors especially your kids.

This post offend most men coz dey miss read it. If u mistreat the mother of ur children she became depressed n emotionally detached to focus on herself, that will decrease how she take care of kids. There are men who do dat intentionally coz dey are natural abusers.men who ain't like dat won't understand n we proud of dem

And when you tell him that he is also doing it to his children instead of apologising and trying to fix things he says he is over it and wants to move on

It must be nice to demand equality and special treatment in one thought process. A child isn’t a trophy to hang your gender on. Both men and women can equally fail a child - perfect example is this statement.