Don’t get me wrong. I love them dearly and am thankful for anything even if it is just time with them.

Ok, I have this same argument.. I have three sisters and one brother (so a big family already) and all my sisters are married with kids, so that’s six people.. and they all have two kids each.. so that’s twelve, and I’m expected to put thought and care and get sizes for clothes and I get a chipotle gift card. I don’t even eat chipotle. I suggest pulling names out of a hat, and I’m told to stfu because I’m ruining Christmas 🤦🏻‍♀️

My sister and I buy just for each other. We leave out the BILs and even our brothers. We agreed as adults to not buy each other gifts, just the kids, but she’s my best friend so obviously I’m getting her something 😂

Time to start secret Santa!! Everyone draws 1 name out the bag and you only buy for that person. Decide on the maximum amount. No stress and no running around trying to buy something for everyone.

Just buy “couple”presents for them.

Draw names with everyone and set a limit that way each person buys one gift

Just spend the amount between the two of them that they’d spend on you.

Do what my sister does . Pick 1 household per year and only get that household a gift 🤣🤣🤣 so this year pic one next year pick the other and so on lmaoo

1 gift per couple.

You don’t have to do anything.. except maybe grow up and stop exchanging gifts w adults. Maybe sit down and have family discussion