Unpopular opinion: There’s no need to invite everyone to your wedding. We had the most intimate wedding I know with 20 total guests: 1 pastor, 4 kids 1 maid of honor/wedding organizer, 4 - our parents, 5 - our siblings, 2 ninong & ninang, 1 - only child na cousin ng ninong&ninang, 2 - kaming ikakasal We looked for a cafe we liked, selected a date 5-6 months away (for wedding seminar & some preps), invited everyone once we have the license & are cleared by the church. 50k damage, 2017.