At my current age of 57, I’m not attracted to the 20 or 30-somethings sexually or otherwise. Why would I be? I can see that they’re handsome, good looking, pretty, etc. I’m not blind. And hell yes, I’ll comment on it. When I was younger, of course. I don’t understand what the issue is here unless whoever you’re talking with thinks all of the oldies interested in those things want to have that kind of relationship.