In my situation once I found out the truth & he continued to lie & said he wasn’t cheating, I figured out who she was & contacted her. I told her women to woman he was with both of us. He lost both of us the same night!! I don’t know that he was hurt being a narcissist & all but karma at least kicked his ass in that situation!! He blamed me at that point as if it were my fault but at least he had to start over. He was just pissed that I called his bitch ass out for the choices he made!

I suspect my ex was hurt when I found our daughter wasn’t my daughter and she had to pay back all that child support I paid for someone else’s child. Cheating can be very different for women because all you had was a cheater. For us men we get stuck with someone else’s child until we find out the truth. Do you know how difficult it is to have a child and then find out the child is not yours, let that sink in.

Who hurt my bro💀

Yes, cheaters can feel hurt too, but in a different way. They might feel guilty or regretful when they realize the damage they’ve caused. Sometimes, they get hurt when their actions lead to losing someone they care about or when they face the consequences of their choices. It really depends on the person and whether they actually reflect on what they’ve done.