Wouldn’t presume to speak for anyone else but myself, let alone “men” all or otherwise, but personally I rarely comment on cases like Gisele Pelicot or other acts of similar extreme violence of men on women, because, I don’t have the words, it’s not about me, would feel like virtue signaling etc. For the record I do do what is asked of us men, always have done (I had a woman mentor as a teenager who educated me back then) but prefer not to make a public display of it.