Live in Vancouver, WA. Born and raised in the Seattle area. As a gun owning family we do not do gun play. We have specific conversations around guns and gun safety when it comes up, but we don't tolerate it. As a teacher I try to keep my values out of the conversation, but we do not allow it. We talk about how their family may perceive guns/gun play and about how that's the right choice for their family, but guns/playing guns can make friends feel unsafe at school so it's not a school choice.