Not just racism. “You are sick and maybe I will get sick too unless it was because of something you did. Or are.” My nephew told me he should not have to pay for my brother’s care or my daughter’s care because they did not take care of themselves. (My daughter had blood clots from her military service, and they could be triggered by something so small as eating more or less broccoli than the day before.) Yeah, I blocked him. But that’s how they think.