2024-12-23 14:52
My ex taught me a lesson that changed my life forever.
Years ago, I wanted to get back together with him, but he said no. Fighting back tears, I asked, “Why not?”
He said, “You’re a cool girl—and I don’t want to date a cool girl.”
Cool girl? What was he even talking about? It sounded like a compliment… right?
He explained: He couldn’t read me. I didn’t show emotion. He gave examples, and it hit me like a ton of bricks.
I wasn’t “playing it cool”… I was