U get either a bassinet that stands next to the bed or get the man out of the bed. Only women should co sleep coz they are more alert than men

The Safe Sleep Seven from Le Leche Group is a great place to learn how to safely bed share. 1. No smoking in or outside the home 2. Sober adults 3. Breastfeeding baby 4. Healthy, full term baby 5. Baby on back, face up 6. No sweat, light clothing with no swaddle 7. Safe surface, firm bedding with no pillows, no heavy blankets, no gaps around the bed. Adding in no pets or older children around the baby.

It’s also advised to be in the “C” position. Mother is lying on their side facing the baby and your body is curled around them with the baby positioned near the breast. The fear surrounding bed sharing is largely a westernized phenomenon. In many cultures it is considered normal to bed share.

Literally some of the places with the lowest incidences of SIDS have the highest cosleeping rates.

We co sleep and we have a wedge pillow that i place on my husbands back that keeps him from rolling back fully and just enough for me to wake up and notice and nudge him back on his side. I sleep with baby next to me in C-curl position. Mothers instinct will wake you with the slightest movement. We’ve never had any issues and baby sleeps great, warm, and safe.

You can safely co sleep. There’s a good website I was recommended called lullaby, they explain how to do it safely

You don’t bed sharing is highly dangerous

Get a bedside crib one that opens on the side so you can scoot the bassinet mattress right beside your mattress. It’s a lot safer and helped me wean my almost 2 year old off of me at night. She now sleep by herself in her own space. I co slept with mine for months before I had a scare and that when I got the bed side crib

I co slept safely by having my man stay awake and watch us sleep together, because I had terrible separation anxiety the first few months. Ofc it wasn’t all the time though, just for a couple of hours some nights. Otherwise I don’t recommend it at all.

Actually it’s really only the western countries who teach against cosleeping. Some countries teach safe cosleeping.