Seriously, you’re making up issues that don’t have to be there. All the kids should be officially gifted equally. But don’t you ever give one of your darlings something just because? An apron with a card suggesting you love cooking with them and can’t wait to do it again. A balloon for me would be an impulse by because I saw it at a check out line and it made me smile thinking of my obsessed child. Thinking of you gifts are the best and don’t have to be equal. Pencils and scissors?