you’re not shallow for having preferences. you’re only shallow if you treat your preferences as moral evaluations. your preferences are subjective and personal, but they have been influenced by culture and may be more flexible than you realize. you never know who you could fall in love with if you give them a chance. nonetheless, it’s ok to prefer tall people, curvy people, muscular people, etc. you can be as selective as you want. just don’t be a jerk about it