If she loves you, she will appreciate that she is your person, that you chose to marry and have a life with. Marriage is intimacy between two people, not a spectacle. Me and mine didn't have a wedding. We are still together going on 4 years and not in debt. We both have never been married nor do we have any kids. So with the sanctity of our marriage and w/o stress scrambling to please families, we are more peaceful and locked in on each other and could give a damn about others opinions.❤️👆