Unpopular opinion: It's not disrespectful to walk out of a surprise party as someone who hates surprises and doesn't celebrate their birthday. It's disrespectful for people to throw one for you. BuT ThEy wEnT ThRoUgH AlL ThAt eFfOrT Okay, cool. This is my birthday. I hate surprises and I don't celebrate it. They didn't do this for me, they did it for them. Fuck them.