Women get shamed for not wanting to settle down with a husband and kids. Women also get shamed for WANTING to settle down with a husband and kids. It’s always “get a job and don’t expect to live off of a man!” Or “you don’t need a man in your life to do what you want!” If I DON’T want that it’s “she’s for the streets.” Well, which is it?? What are we supposed to do to please y’all?