ableist phrases i get the most 1. what happened to you/what's wrong with you 2. wow you are good with "that thing" [my wheelchair] 3. you're so strong/brave/whatever 4. I'll pray for you [or worse, something like "accepting Jesus will heal you"] 5. I don't know how you do it 6. you're too young for that [my wheelchair] 7. my cousin/friend/dog is also disabled and ___ cured them! you should try it honorable mention- bending over and talking to me like I'm a child Visibly Disabled