Ladies who are single mothers, as a therapist, I’m going to say this very clearly: When your children—especially your Black Male children—become emotionally intelligent enough to say to you that the anger that you felt was misplaced onto them? Your choice to either continue to fill that emotional space or allow them the space for their anger to be valid too will be a defining aspect in their lives moving forward. Your emotions are valid. Your behaviors? *Will* be questioned.