I don't understand those who dislike and hate Nesta call her narcissistic when she isn't? She shows nothing of that sort from what I see. If she was, she wouldn't even care for Elain either. She wouldn't have gone to the wall to try to find Feyre. She wouldn't have agreed, albeit begrudgingly, to have that queen meeting at their home and she most certainly would not have covered Cassian with her body when Hybern was about to strike them down 1/2