He says this is why most (not all) men find themselves wanting to settle down and be married in their 40s and 50s. I asked what are the signs of the slow down and his reply was, “When you wake up in the morning and don’t have an erection, there’s a problem.” He further explains this is a result of all the drinking, smoking, bad eating habits and overall neglect to take care of themselves during their 20s and 30s catching up with them. 3/