The reason they hold on to you because they know if u run into someone who truly deserves u, they’ll loose u FOREVER! & won’t be able to benefit anymore. While being w u holding u hostage, they cheat in search for what they truly want. Once they find it then they’ll eventually move on. Stop thinking you can change them. YOU CAN’T!!! Because you’re not who they want!!!! But in the end you become damaged. Now you think everyone is like that. Get outta there before you can be use for all you have ‼️