It’s okay to be direct but I guess wait for them to take the lead. It hits different.

Of course not, she should try herself!

Women often think they are flirting but it’s not what guys consider flirting. You have to do more than smile and make eye contact.

I think you should be realistic about whether he’s in your league. If he is noticeably better looking as a male than you as a female (haven’t seen your pictures to be unbiased) and he doesn’t approach you that often, odds are he won’t be interested. But if you’re a total babe and he’s not very good looking or plain, I’m 99% sure he will say yes. Most men who aren’t handsome or even average looking would be out of their mind with a cute girl asking him out.

always shoot your shot. I dont mean the "one night stand at the club" kind of way, but dont be afraid to say hi and chat. Thats all you need really.

Of course she should.

Ladies you are going to have to approach him because feminism and me too has taught us men to not approach you.