I was talking to a friend about divorce and how I wasn’t at all prepared for the grieving process that came with it. Honestly, I expected an almost immediate glow up after the separation. But when that didn’t happen, I found myself thinking, Maybe he was right. Maybe I was the problem. It’s wild because when someone has treated you horribly, you imagine you’ll be so happy when you’re finally free of them. But the reality is, before the glow-up, there’s a lot of grief and guilt to work through.