When I dated my ex 3 years ago (or whenever I dated someone), I’d always choose the cheapest meal to keep his spending on me minimal. If he treated me to food, I’d balance it out by getting dessert or coffee. If he gave me a gift worth RM500, I’d make sure to get him something of equal value Idk whether it’s a green flag or just my independent nature at play 🤷‍♀️