I'm very sad because my older brother is at a hospital in Dallas, but I can't go visit him bc I'm afraid he would think I can take him home with me. I want to give him a Christmas present, but I'm so nervous about making him feel even more abandoned. Is it worse for him to think I don't think about him, or is it worse for me to go to visit and leave? He has no guardian at the moment and has been stuck at a Dallas hospital since August.