The people with the mindset that a woman is setting herself up for failure if she enters an abusive relationship shows how uneducated and close minded people are. “Why do you attract people like that then, go for good men” Like the men weren’t good in the start? Hell, even perfect! Like I wasn’t raised by a narcissist and can spot the signs, but people still act dif and can totally trick you regardless? Like I don’t leave immediately when I see it? Like women don’t get literally trapped and -